Simple eye contact and a smile was often all it took to get a smile and a wave back from a beautiful woman. Sounds cheesy, I know, but it worked! And besides: those little interactions were a pretty big deal for me when I was still a young inexperienced guy from the middle of United States. As you just read in the last tip, a little bit of confidence goes a long way. Especially in Hong Kong! Stand up straight. Not only look confident, but be confident as well!
Hong Kong is a city where tourists from all of the world flock to. Because of this, the usual tourist spots such as Victoria Peak, the Star Ferry, etc. Find out where the locals hang out and spend your time there.
The main benefit of doing this is this: if you look like a tourist, the chances of someone approaching you offering tips to help you enjoy your time in the city are much higher. Hopefully by now I have given you the confidence you need to inspire you to book a trip to Hong Kong. Here are some frequently asked questions about meeting Hong Kong girls:.
Hong Kong is a very international city, and they are very much exposed to western media. We are not as foreign to them as some might think. Not only that, there are a lot of western ex-pats living and working in Hong Kong, so this is something they deal with on a daily basis.
Extremely easy! It just seems so desperate and cold. I have a few western male friends who played the field for the first year or so and now have steady live in girlfriends Chinese who are happy with their relationships. Hope it helps give some understanding. If someone want to know the mind of chinese woman, it is welcome to feel free to ask me or how about the the image of native chinese men for me. It's a classic stereotype but I have to say I don't see why so many western women complain I mean sure there's few available western men for them but you'd think with million chinese men they could find a good one, Shanghaiese men seem to be really good towards their women, carry bags, cook, look after them in every way possible.
Chinese women vs Western women. Let's stop talking about ethnicity, and just take a sober look at the data. Statistics reveal that there are more women than men, and that a lot of these men marry women from across the border. If HK women were a bit more pro-active in love matters, they would start doing the same thing, looking to the mainland, where the opposite is true not enough women.
As justin credible said, if you have the right attitude, men will never be scarce, even in HK. By right attitude i mean letting your hair down, enjoying your life, being open to new encounters, going to parties, smiling, following your interests, and having realistic expectations about men. We all know that when we are in a happy relationship more men are actually attracted to us. I never get so much attention as when i have just left my bf's flat. Maybe because i am relaxed and still exuding sex hormones I have a friend in Europe who is a living proof of this.
She can go for 6 months without a date, and then once she starts going out with a guy she inevitably finds herself in a very complicated situation, with at least 3 men pursuing her at the same time, and she can't choose! So, all it takes is a. However everywhere we look they are snogging local women they have just met. So to the jerk who suggest we learn from them sorry - I have never snogged anyone I have just met on the dance floor and some of them look like they need a hotel room on the dance floor- we are not prudes by any means but sorry to say even the expat chinese girls that come to hongkong say this as a joke.
Hi I am gweilo - Come and F me!!!! We have time for you guys we are there where everyone hangs out, we are approachable etc but no some of these guys do is just beeline for the local women thinking they can get some tonight.
I mean how many times have we seen that in pubs and bars etc. My other girlfriends has female friends that are gorgeous and she said in the 4 years she has been inhongkong not one male guy has approoached them!!!!!! Otherwise please take a trip to langkwai fong, and you will see the gweilo - chinese lady phenomenon.
Yujanice 13 yrs ago Ravishing, I never trust the bar scenes There are not the ideal place to find a decent guy. Guys are the same finally I supposed, they are all looking for the same thing and same as gals. Guys are so crap here, they never promise, never act like a man, their only function is carrying their gf's hangbag, or paying for the tickets They like go out or on the contrary they just hiding at home. I am simply amazed by the comments in this thread. My boyfriend, a western guy, offers to do my washing, he cooks my dinner - and breakfast and lunch - why" because he loves to cook, and I love that he loves to cook I am a crap cook:-!!
And I met him when I had only been in the hong kong for a few weeks. I am a wonderful girlfriend, I love my own space, i appreciate him for his talents and for his shortfalls and I deserve to be looked after - he is greatly appreciated and feels appreciated - he is a wonderful man. Mostly I make him laugh a lot, and he always puts a smile on my dial! Within a few hours of our first date, he knew that i am not a great cook, i like my own space, and that i am happy within myself, who i am, and what i stand for - as is he So what about it dice?
I once asked a girl what she thought of Asian men and how she felt about the assumption that western women weren't into them. She said that wasn't true and said all her girlfriends were interested in dating Asian men.
Observation suggests that has to be the exception not the rule, unless it's not that some won't date an 'Asian Man' but rather which Asian Man Anyway China's on the up and up maybe the dice will start rolling in a different direction, and in the end doesn't it all boil down to marketing?
Asian men do have relatively slender builds and western women may not like that. Sad but true. SmartestGuy 12 yrs ago with Due respects to all I am from Middle east but have studied my College education in London and have traveled widely in china, hongkong, taiwan, korea, vietnam, singapore, thailand etc many times. I noticed one thing ubiquitously common in these asian countries : young and beautiful asian girls go around with elderly western men. Being an young man, I used to wonder what is it that attracts these young girls towards older western men.
Yes, as you rightly guessed, nothing but the dollars and or a ray of hope for a comfortable post married life, in case these white men decide to marry them. These men thoroughly enjoy these girls who are as old as their grand children and also they keep changing women at different times and places. Shanghai and Bangkok are two greatest places of examples. What stops Asian men from approaching western women, nothing but their inferiority complex, becoz the women are tall, beautiful and have a sexy body.
They feel inferior to approach these women thinking that they dont match the physical attraction possessed by the western men.
Most of the ads placed by women in asiaxpat irrespective of location, prefer caucasians and not the local men. If you analyze these ads, most of them want a sould mate and not a player, which clearly says that every woman had few players in their past affairs. If you go deep into this you will understand that these women have yielded to the advances of the Playing men.
So, there is no point in just blaming the men. So my suggestion to the women is, please think twice, thrice, before you end up yourself in the bedroom of a man. Dont contribute to making more players around your town. Sunny I am based in Dubai City. Here is the simple easy to remember, its ugly but its the truth rule Men and woman are as committed as their options.
Second, its how big the currency bank is. People with fewer option tend to have lower, and fewer criteria, and larger pools of relationship currency in the bank Here's an example, Older guy mid 40's , decent job recruiter , average shape not fat but not athletic and looks not ugly but nothing sexy either.
His younger late 20's , local chinese , low end job office assistant , pretty Black hair, black eyes, not overweight, A cup. One day he picks her up outside her office and takes her to dinner at a nice restraunt as a surprise. She thinks he's so sweet and not only thinks he's a great guy but deposits some relationship currency in the bank. Now a week later, no call from him on friday.
She thinks about him and thinks she should be treated better then this, and takes a withdrawl from the relationship bank. A week later he forgets her birthday, and she thinks this is enough he doesn't really care for her, and he's old anyway. She leaves a message on his voice mail that night thats its not working out and they shouldn't be together anymore. Ringo23 12 yrs ago Perhaps local ladies should reevaluate their opening gambits and try asking face to face instead of posting in personals.
In 16 years of living in HK, I've been approached by one lady. She was Japanese, here on business. I'm an outdoors guide with my own business. Money is not great but I don't do what I do to be financially rich. I'm certainly no oil painting but then I'm better than a Pollock In 16 years I've not been approached by one local lass. Of the ladies I've approached, the majority have been receptive.
If you want it, go and get it. Don't just dream about it and then wonder why it never happens. CaptDave 12 yrs ago There are plenty of single men, but a lot of Ladies are quite fussy.
While there are a lot of good men, there are very, very few perfect men, and most women have a problem understanding that the perfect man is going to marry a better woman that them. She found that the women, having become more independent in recent years, wanted a western man as they thought he wouldn't expect them to morph into a housewife. The guys were often marrying local women because they wanted a sweet, submissive wife. She had no figures on divorce rates HK women in their 30s and 40s want men who are rich, handsome, not too old and in a good job.
Now, that is tough as these men want women in their 20s. Many ladies won't accept a man who has been divorced or is not Chinese or is not educated or is not rich or is younger than them or all of the above. I have been asked by my many single female friends to introduce single male friends to them.
When I ask my single male friends, they end up not knowing what they want or they are just out for fun. I must admit that some of these male friends, much as they are my friends, I will not wish them on my worst enemy. Dr Strangelove 12 yrs ago Well, as a divorced guy who has used dating sites in HK in an attempt to meet local women, I can tell you my experience has not been positive. It is almost as if they base there selection criteria upon this rather than anything else. I can only say that would be akin to a guy only wanting to date women who had a certain bust size or shape and to hell with personality etc.
I have had other women reject me because I am divorced with ongoing financial responsibilities to my ex and my children. However, I am perfectly open to having a relationship with a lady who has children from a previous marriage if, of course, we click. However, it doesn't seem to cut both ways. HK is a dating graveyard. I totally agree with you Especially if they are educated, you dont stand a chance unless you are Mr Rich and Handsome.
You are, or you not. Make the best of either one of your situation, stop "looking" for something you dont want to have or want anymore Why do ppl make the women sound so desperate when they talk about women looking for a partner?
I think the correct attitude is to look for someone who will add sth onto your life and vice versa. It is not a necessity to have someone. You should be happy with yourself first and then you are in the right place to look for a partner who should be a bonus rather than a necessity.
I don't think anyone needs to feel sorry for anyone or jump to the conclusion that if they are not with someone now, they must be picky. Isn't it far better to know what you want and look for that? Why is lowering the bar out of sheer loneliness and desperation seen as more correct?
It is like pre-formulating disappointment into a relationship before it even gets started. Remember women from Hong Kong are very different to women from other parts of the world. Be nice to her parents. If you are dating this girl for a while and one day she asks you to meet her parents. That means she really look at you as the one that she can marry in the future.
If you also feel the same way, then you have to do some homework in advance for the meeting. Bring some gifts such as a nice bottle of wine or some interesting stuff from you own country are always good options. This is fine for middle class or working class ladies but does not apply to upper class or professionals.
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Chinese women are among the most competent, creative, gorgeous, and patient women globally, and Hong Kong women are no exception. Hong Kong women are very reserved, yet have moved up the 21st century to make themselves more valuable to society by participating and having a say in the community. In that part of the world, ladies have struggled to remain tough despite traditions and laws that tend to be frustrating or stifling. Stigmatization had been a significant setback for certain ladies in this region.
The average Hongkong girl tries to overcome these challenges to become the refined breed of women men desire.
A typical Hong Kong girl is brought up to live a particularly decent life. In contrast, Hong Kong tradition frowns at such and at the same time will criticize a woman who remains unmarried at an age they feel is ideal. According to Chinese culture , Dating in Hong Kong has to be as chaste as possible, as premarital relations are discouraged.
It is so valid, particularly for the 21st-century hot Hong Kong girl. If you want to date in Hong Kong, you need to get your fun shoes on because they love adventure. The variety of food and entertainment reflects how much they are open to trying new things.
Get ready to have much fun if you marry a Hongkong girl because she will give you a treat you will never forget in a hurry. Hong Kong women love to be respected and treated nicely.
Traditional Hong Kong women are taught to possess certain attractive features to easily please their husbands as arranged marriage is rampant in that part of the world. Girls are raised to become virtuous wives to their husbands. The 21st century has helped women carve out freedom for themselves. Although they now have the right to choose their husbands, their attitude and conduct in marriage are still monitored by parents or families in general.
It remains a blot on a woman from Hong Kong to have a child while unmarried and unmarried women battle the hassle of not having a child as they must pay a fee for having a baby while not married. If you are itching to meet beautiful Hong Kong, taking a trip to the country should be on the cards. Most girls from Hong kong reside in the region and are willing to meet foreigners as well. Consider the best ways to find them.
Nightlife is where the most fun lies for modern-day Hong Kong singles and many single ladies worldwide. Hot Hong Kong ladies get to fill up the bars and nightclubs. You can visit some spots like:. If you aim to go out at night to mingle with real hot Hong Kong girls, then the Tazmania Ballroom at Lan Kwai Fong would be a proper recommendation as it is regarded as the best party spot in that region.
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